Compare forum posts to the output of an average llm and you get tenfold the compassion and friendliness with llms. People stop listening after 5 minutes, are biased, have ulterior motives. Whenever I go back to other humans, I think "how in the world does this person have any friends".
This is not any different with conversations with real people outside the Internet.
In tune with those people is also their overused fallacy of "good people are out there, you just have to search properly"